Wifepreneur in Business: Expectations vs. Reality

Many wives dream of working for themselves, being their own boss, and having the freedom to only take on clients and projects they love. What they don’t realize, though, is that there is a huge difference between building a business and being self-employed. Business owners scale their income. Self-employed people trade dollars for hours.  I know about that all too well, because I was guilty of that. Business owners leverage the skills and talents of others. Self-employed people rely only on their own skills. Discouraged yet? Don’t be. Every business owner started out self-employed. Just don’t stay there. These tips will help you build a sustainable business instead of just another job. Build a Business, Not Another Job or Don’t Try to Do It All Yourself Building a sustainable business requires that you leverage the talents and time of others. While it might seem cost-effective to simply do everything yourself—especially in the start-up phase when you likely have more time than money—it’s a path to burnout and stress. Instead, separate your tasks into those that you love and are especially suited for (such as marketing) and those you dislike and aren’t good at. Then make a solid plan to get those that you aren’t good at off your list of things to do. If you feel like you can’t afford to outsource it all right now, start with what you tend to procrastinate the most on, even if it’s just a few hours each month. Don’t Allow Yourself to Work All the Time The trouble with working at home is that you live at work. And that means that there’s no clear line in the sand between your work day and your home life. Since there’s always work to do, it’s easy to find yourself working every available moment—often to the detriment of your family relationships. You can help avoid this by:

• Setting—and maintaining—clear work hours and make sure your family respects it.
• Having an office with a door you can close when you’re done ( So you won’t tempt yourself to keep working and it keeps it out of sight, out of mind.
• Scheduling time for family and other activities
• Taking time for yourself

Vacations and Downtime Are Important Don’t create a business that requires you to be “in the office” every day. At the start, you may need to be available more, but you should definitely be planning for the day when you can be “off the grid” for extended periods of time.

• Have trusted contractors who can handle things when you’re not available
• Leverage automation tools such as autoresponders and auto webinar systems
• Create repeatable systems so you’re not always re-inventing the wheel

While you might not be able to hit the road with no internet access for weeks at a time, at the very least you should be able to reduce your workload to a daily check-in. Sound impossible? It’s not. With some forethought and planning, you can create a team—and a profitable signature system they need—to successfully run your business without becoming overwhelmed and overworked.